Recognize signs you should dump your boyfriend

There are normally some warning signs to tell you that the relationship is not working. And staying in a relationship that’s not working is ultimately a waste of time. So even if it’s very hard, there are times when you need to recognize the signs you should dump your boyfriend.

1. You don’t feel totally secure: Whether he’s making you feel inadequate and putting you down or you don’t believe you can be yourself around him, either way is not okay.

2. He hates all the guys you hang out with: When the boyfriend gets a little jealous of the guys you hang out with. But it’s not okay if he stops you from seeing your guys friends, just because he’s insecure they’ll snatch you up. It’s also NOT fair if you stop seeing your friends because your boyfriend says you shouldn’t.

3. Your values are very different: You want to get married. He doesn’t. You want to have kids. He doesn’t. You want to live in a house with backyard one day. He loves apartment style living. It’s quite healthy to have different opinions in a relationship and you shouldn’t expect his aspiration to be exactly the same as you. But if your values in life are very different to each other, the relationship is not going to work anyway.