I have been asked by a few people “How to
forget someone you still really like”, most of the time the question
relates to the ex whom they still have a clear picture of in their mind,
or the person who they’ve started dating (or are dating) who pretty
much has just left them for any reason . Most people who ask this
question are feeling some kind of emotional pain rooted somewhere in
their heart or mind that they can’t concentrate on any task given to
them. Normally this pain happens on the first few hours they ‘get
dumped’ or ‘felt like they’ve lost someone’, or whom they finally got
the courage to ‘leave’.
So here are some things that you can do:
1. Accept the fact that you are hurt, and accept that there is no quick fix, that there is a process to forget someone.
2. Do something physical ON YOUR OWN
3. Writing a blog or a diary – both online and offline
4. Beyond this, time will heal
But what you can do though, is to get
over the painful hurt feeling as quickly as possible so that you can
survive the hurt, able to concentrate on your days, and most importantly
move on with your life whether you want to get back to dating scene
with a more ‘ready’ mind, or just move on with your life without feeling
the hurt anymore.
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